Reflections

Reflections on Letting Go & Unlearning Unlearning— the urge to rush healing Letting go of— timelines that were never mine to begin with Admitting— that control was my coping mechanism, not my strength Releasing— the version of me that only knew how to survive Reflections on Clarity & Inner Truths Clarity in— the kind of … Reflections

The Art of Communication

Being a sex worker enhances my communication skills significantly. To effectively sell my services, maintain a client base, and attract new customers, I rely on my strong communication abilities. Engaging with individuals from diverse backgrounds and walks of life requires not only speaking with them, but also observing their body language, movements, and facial expressions. … The Art of Communication

Why I Retired The 60 Minute Date

I’ve been asked this question several times since I retired my 1 hour date, so let me tell you why. I like to spend time at the beginning of my dates getting to know my new clients, and catching up with familiar faces. I put in an effort to show interest and it helps people … Why I Retired The 60 Minute Date

SEO For Sex Work

How to kill it at marketing (keep in mind I know nothing) This is going to be a shift from what I typically write about. For one, I’m technologically inclined. For two, I find this stuff b-o-r-i-n-g. Last, we’re sex workers, why bother with ‘technology’? I’ll tell you why: marketing is 90% of our job. … SEO For Sex Work

How I Stay Motivated

Do you struggle staying motivated? Sometimes I do too. That’s why I’ve composed a guide for How to Stay Motivated during those times when the going gets though. I can come back to this and reflect on what’s really important, and remind myself to pick it up! Happy reading! Wake Up Early Wake up early— … How I Stay Motivated

Romanticize Your Life

Romanticize the life you live. In this social media era, comparison is at an all time high. We’re forever searching for what we don’t have, and idolizing those who seem to have it all. But the truth is, it’s an illusion. Most people aren’t living extravagant lives; social media is just a highlight reel. People … Romanticize Your Life