Reflections

Reflections on Letting Go & Unlearning Unlearning— the urge to rush healing Letting go of— timelines that were never mine to begin with Admitting— that control was my coping mechanism, not my strength Releasing— the version of me that only knew how to survive Reflections on Clarity & Inner Truths Clarity in— the kind of … Reflections

Instant Gratification

We live in a society of instant gratification, the world at our fingertips, impacting our every desire to pursue pleasure immediately without delay. The ability to swipe, click and have things at our doorstep within minutes fosters an impulsive culture. Through impulsive decisions, we prioritize short-term happiness over long-term gain. It’s a self-regulation challenge seen … Instant Gratification

Wellness, Self Care and Skin Health

For me, taking care of my body is an act of self care– skin included. It’s the little rituals, the way I nurture myself, that help me feel centered and maintain a sense of balance and well-being. It’s more than just bubble baths; what works for me is a complete incorporation of mindfulness practices into … Wellness, Self Care and Skin Health

A New Chapter: My First Home

As many of you already know, I’ve purchased my first home! This milestone has been a long time coming, and while I’ve been sitting with the news for a while, the excitement still rushes through me like waves. Some days, it feels like I’m floating– other days, I remind myself to breathe. It’s a new … A New Chapter: My First Home

Skincare

If you know me well, you know that skincare is one of my passions. I live for opening new jars of moisturizer or spinning open a new bottle of serum. That pretty, rosemary smell, the luxuriously smooth spread across the face. It’s the little things guys, okay.  My favourite place to purchase my skincare items … Skincare

Timmies & New Friends

So I met a client at a timmies the other day. HA! Picture this: You were going about your day, indulging in the ordinary tasks and errands that make up our daily lives. Little did you know that a chance encounter would ignite a spark and leave an indelible mark on your memory. You find … Timmies & New Friends

The Art of Communication

Being a sex worker enhances my communication skills significantly. To effectively sell my services, maintain a client base, and attract new customers, I rely on my strong communication abilities. Engaging with individuals from diverse backgrounds and walks of life requires not only speaking with them, but also observing their body language, movements, and facial expressions. … The Art of Communication

Why I Retired The 60 Minute Date

I’ve been asked this question several times since I retired my 1 hour date, so let me tell you why. I like to spend time at the beginning of my dates getting to know my new clients, and catching up with familiar faces. I put in an effort to show interest and it helps people … Why I Retired The 60 Minute Date

SEO For Sex Work

How to kill it at marketing (keep in mind I know nothing) This is going to be a shift from what I typically write about. For one, I’m technologically inclined. For two, I find this stuff b-o-r-i-n-g. Last, we’re sex workers, why bother with ‘technology’? I’ll tell you why: marketing is 90% of our job. … SEO For Sex Work

How I Stay Motivated

Do you struggle staying motivated? Sometimes I do too. That’s why I’ve composed a guide for How to Stay Motivated during those times when the going gets though. I can come back to this and reflect on what’s really important, and remind myself to pick it up! Happy reading! Wake Up Early Wake up early— … How I Stay Motivated